FORGIVE!
So how do we walk in love? Forgive. Let go of the past hurts. I know that's easier said than done but as you make the effort it will get easier and easier. Negative emotions toward someone else hinders your ability to focus on the thiings God wants to do in your life. The enemy will bring the situation that caused the negative emotion to you over and over again. Unforgiveness holds you hostage to a past you cannot change.